audikatia
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    socialnetworkhell:

    "Consensual sex" is just sex. To say that implies that there is such a thing as "non consensual sex", which there isn’t. That’s rape. That is what it needs to be called. There is only sex or rape. Do not teach people that rape is just another type of sex. They are two very separate events. You wouldn’t say "breathing swimming" and "non breathing swimming", you say swimming and drowning.

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    Another problem with the sex positive movement is the idea that questioning the ethics of a fetish is always “kink shaming”. I think that whatever two adults do consensually is fine, but I also think that it’s important to critically examine why so many people fantasize about rape or have really racist sexual fantasies. Any sex worker can tell you that people have disturbing and fucked-up fetishes, and the idea that we shouldn’t question where those come from is ridiculous.
    ...

    From a Friend of the Site.

    We couldn’t have said it any better.

    SW14 (via spring1999)

    (Source: sexworkerproblems)

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    jessepnkman:

    ladies, if a guy doesn’t eat pussy but still expects to get his dick sucked… laugh right in his face. leave the room in the midst of your laughter. go home while laughing. keep laughing for the rest of your life. never stop laughing.

    (Source: donniedarkos)

    tagged: [sex] [feminism]
      1:10 am, reblogged  by audikatia, [ 141,960 notes ]


      11:54 pm, reblogged  by audikatia, [ 111,161 notes ]


    (Source: sexgerms.com)

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    trappedinthetwerkzone:

    cunicular:

    Your first time is NOT supposed to hurt

    You are NOT supposed to bleed

    If you bleed, that is NOT your hymen being ‘popped’, it is a tear due to lack of sexual arousal and natural lubrication.

    This is all a MYTH perpetrated by men so they don’t have to make sure you are comfortable and sufficiently aroused enough before you have sex with them. It is an excuse to disregard and hurt you.

    I just really want women to know this.

    Actually, yeah, it… does still hurt.

    There’s no hymen to “break”, true, since it’s not a barrier, it’s more like a surrounding membrane,  but it’s still THERE. It stretches.  You can do it with a dildo or something too, but it happens, and there’s gonna be some pressure if it’s the first time you’ve ever stretched your hymen. And if precautions aren’t taken (taking it slow, using proper amounts of lube, etc), there can be some minor tearing that causes it to bleed.

    Also how about you lay off the fucking dude hate thing? Fun fact, males attend the same health classes girls do. There’s not a secret meeting where the men are round up and taught this neat trick about not needing to pleasure their partner enough. If there’s misinformation, it’s doled out equally to both genders, by both genders.

    Sorry to say, but, uh, you’re wrong, and to add to it, you made half the population out to be villains. Cheers.

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    cutebabe:

i will never not reblog this

    cutebabe:

    i will never not reblog this

    (Source: donedirt)

      11:14 pm, reblogged  by audikatia, [ 108,198 notes ]


    scarlettrouillard:

    This is really important to me.  I just got out of an abusive relationship, and I hope that no one ever has to feel like I did.

    (Source: dizhang)

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    Long Exposures of Sex

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    plannedparenthood:

thephotogfeminist:

If you’ve ever had a condom break, it’s probably because it was stored incorrectly, expired, or put on wrong.
P.S. STORES CAN SELL YOU EXPIRED CONDOMS! Check the expiration date!

So where should you store condoms? In a cool, dry place where it’s not likely to get punctured or mangled. Keep that wrapper safe and intact.
*It’s okay to keep a condom in your purse for the night as long as there’s nothing in there that might puncture it. Just don’t store it there long term.
-Chelsea at Planned Parenthood

    plannedparenthood:

    thephotogfeminist:

    If you’ve ever had a condom break, it’s probably because it was stored incorrectly, expired, or put on wrong.

    P.S. STORES CAN SELL YOU EXPIRED CONDOMS! Check the expiration date!

    So where should you store condoms? In a cool, dry place where it’s not likely to get punctured or mangled. Keep that wrapper safe and intact.

    *It’s okay to keep a condom in your purse for the night as long as there’s nothing in there that might puncture it. Just don’t store it there long term.

    -Chelsea at Planned Parenthood

      6:19 pm, reblogged  by audikatia, [ 19,914 notes ]